| Carol Allen, Relationship Coat, Radio Talk Show Host Author of Love is in the Stars; The Wise Woman's Astrological Guide to Men |
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| "As a psychologist, I believed many of the answers to my life struggles would be found in years of therapy, yet no one has been able to enlighten me as Carol has. I owe my marriage and my family to Carol." S.A. Espino, MSW, Psychologist |
We’ve all heard it a million times—the most important thing to have in any relationship for it to succeed is (drum roll
please…) communication. Well, guess what? Grandma and all the pundits got it right. Findings of the most empirical,
rigorous, long-term marriage study ever done say the same thing—to effectively maneuver the world of intimate
coupling, you have to be able to healthfully communicate.
That’s easy, right? I mean, we’ve all been talking since we were toddlers. And if you can talk, you can communicate, can’
t ya? And if you’re involved with someone over one-year-old, they can talk. So it should be as simple as that.
But we all know it’s not—we struggle with how to approach tough topics, how to ask for what we need without making the
other person start bleeding, how to be honest but not too honest. Most of us spend a great deal of time telling white lies,
swallowing our feelings, and hoping for the best. Or worse, we start with good intentions but then can’t manage our
emotions and pick the wrong timing, the wrong approach, and end up making the other person yell or cry or shut down—
or leave, and then we wonder—what the heck happened?
If anything of this sounds familiar, I’d love to tell you you’re unique in your challenges. But, sadly, you’re not. Look
around—your friends are having the same problems you are. And when you call them for advice, they say things like,
“He said what?! Get rid of him!” But isn’t that what they said about the last guy? Your favorite characters on TV are no
help, either. You know we’re in trouble as a society when the happiest, most loving couple in the media is Marge and
Homer.
So where can you go? On Enlightening Relationships, we’ll tell you all the things to do that work every time. Because it’
s not what you say, but how you say it and when that matters. That same marriage study has found that 96% of
conversations that start harshly never recover and go smoothly. Ninety-six percent! Which means you can never start a
conversation harshly. We’ll fully cover their results and those of several other scientific research studies which have
determined the ways men’s and women’s brains differ in terms of speech, problem solving, and instinct, why men are
more likely than women to give the silent treatment, the ways men are inspired to give us what we want, and more. And
best of all, once you know how to do what works, you can teach everyone in your life how to communicate effectively with
you. So no more enduring yelling, criticism, or ambushes. Won’t that be great? You’ll be the envy of all your friends,
whose new response to your phone calls will be, “He said what?! You’re so lucky!”
please…) communication. Well, guess what? Grandma and all the pundits got it right. Findings of the most empirical,
rigorous, long-term marriage study ever done say the same thing—to effectively maneuver the world of intimate
coupling, you have to be able to healthfully communicate.
That’s easy, right? I mean, we’ve all been talking since we were toddlers. And if you can talk, you can communicate, can’
t ya? And if you’re involved with someone over one-year-old, they can talk. So it should be as simple as that.
But we all know it’s not—we struggle with how to approach tough topics, how to ask for what we need without making the
other person start bleeding, how to be honest but not too honest. Most of us spend a great deal of time telling white lies,
swallowing our feelings, and hoping for the best. Or worse, we start with good intentions but then can’t manage our
emotions and pick the wrong timing, the wrong approach, and end up making the other person yell or cry or shut down—
or leave, and then we wonder—what the heck happened?
If anything of this sounds familiar, I’d love to tell you you’re unique in your challenges. But, sadly, you’re not. Look
around—your friends are having the same problems you are. And when you call them for advice, they say things like,
“He said what?! Get rid of him!” But isn’t that what they said about the last guy? Your favorite characters on TV are no
help, either. You know we’re in trouble as a society when the happiest, most loving couple in the media is Marge and
Homer.
So where can you go? On Enlightening Relationships, we’ll tell you all the things to do that work every time. Because it’
s not what you say, but how you say it and when that matters. That same marriage study has found that 96% of
conversations that start harshly never recover and go smoothly. Ninety-six percent! Which means you can never start a
conversation harshly. We’ll fully cover their results and those of several other scientific research studies which have
determined the ways men’s and women’s brains differ in terms of speech, problem solving, and instinct, why men are
more likely than women to give the silent treatment, the ways men are inspired to give us what we want, and more. And
best of all, once you know how to do what works, you can teach everyone in your life how to communicate effectively with
you. So no more enduring yelling, criticism, or ambushes. Won’t that be great? You’ll be the envy of all your friends,
whose new response to your phone calls will be, “He said what?! You’re so lucky!”
| Contact Carol Allen at wlallen@earthlink.net Visit Carol's Website www.loveisinthestars.com |
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| Thoughts on Relationships by Carol Allen "The Art of Communication" |
| "Carol is a natural. Her instinctual ability to get to the heart of the matter in relationships and to get her clients to come along with her, at their own pace, is matched by warmth, intellect, and humanity. She is a treasure." Stephen P. Herman, M.D. Clinical Assoc. Professor of Psychiatry, Cornell University |
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“As a man thinketh, so shall he be?” or “Watch what you wish for, ‘cause you just might get it?” These philosophical
of that have to do with relationships? Think about it—we all know a story of a woman who got sick of dating bozo
after bozo, so she wrote a list of the qualities of her dream man. She read the list over and over and put it under her
pillow, and what happened? She met him the next day and they’ve been married ever since.
Was that coincidence? Dumb luck? Wayne Dyer says, “You’ll see it when you believe it.” I have found that many of
us have exactly what we expected as children—single mothers tell me they always envisioned having children but
never saw a partner in their mind’s eye, happily married women tell me they always knew they’d be married, divorced
people often report to me that they’d always worried they’d end up divorced like their parents, and the rest is history.
Linda Sivertsen, celebrity interviewer and ghostwriter of celebrity books, author of Lives Charmed—Intimate
Conversations With Extraordinary People—has been hearing from fabulously successful people that they fully
expected to be successful and visualized much of their lives before the magic kicked in. Athletes, movie stars,
newscasters, authors, you name it—none of them have ever reported to Sivertsen that they are surprised to be
where they are. Arnold Palmer, golf champion, told her that he grew up the son of a greens keeper at a country club,
and that he wasn’t allowed to use the facilities like the members.
This gave him the desire to have access to the world he could only witness from the sidelines. He became so
focused that he not only went on to win an astonishing ninety-two professional championships, but he now owns that
same club. Leeza Gibbons, former host of Entertainment Tonight, and Extra told Sivertsen that since the fifth grade
she decided she would be a storyteller using the medium of television.
Actor/comedian Robert Townsend was raised by a single mother. He was obsessed with television, and though he
saw few marriages in real life, he saw may happy couples on his favorite shows and therefore always believed he’d
find love and be married and he did! Seeing a pattern? On Enlightening Relationships Linda Sivertsen will join me to
share the amazing insights she’s learned. And she should know, as her life has been quite charmed as well. You
see, she’s one of those women who sat down and wrote out the list of qualities of her dream husband, but instead of
meeting him the next day—she met him the same day!
of that have to do with relationships? Think about it—we all know a story of a woman who got sick of dating bozo
after bozo, so she wrote a list of the qualities of her dream man. She read the list over and over and put it under her
pillow, and what happened? She met him the next day and they’ve been married ever since.
Was that coincidence? Dumb luck? Wayne Dyer says, “You’ll see it when you believe it.” I have found that many of
us have exactly what we expected as children—single mothers tell me they always envisioned having children but
never saw a partner in their mind’s eye, happily married women tell me they always knew they’d be married, divorced
people often report to me that they’d always worried they’d end up divorced like their parents, and the rest is history.
Linda Sivertsen, celebrity interviewer and ghostwriter of celebrity books, author of Lives Charmed—Intimate
Conversations With Extraordinary People—has been hearing from fabulously successful people that they fully
expected to be successful and visualized much of their lives before the magic kicked in. Athletes, movie stars,
newscasters, authors, you name it—none of them have ever reported to Sivertsen that they are surprised to be
where they are. Arnold Palmer, golf champion, told her that he grew up the son of a greens keeper at a country club,
and that he wasn’t allowed to use the facilities like the members.
This gave him the desire to have access to the world he could only witness from the sidelines. He became so
focused that he not only went on to win an astonishing ninety-two professional championships, but he now owns that
same club. Leeza Gibbons, former host of Entertainment Tonight, and Extra told Sivertsen that since the fifth grade
she decided she would be a storyteller using the medium of television.
Actor/comedian Robert Townsend was raised by a single mother. He was obsessed with television, and though he
saw few marriages in real life, he saw may happy couples on his favorite shows and therefore always believed he’d
find love and be married and he did! Seeing a pattern? On Enlightening Relationships Linda Sivertsen will join me to
share the amazing insights she’s learned. And she should know, as her life has been quite charmed as well. You
see, she’s one of those women who sat down and wrote out the list of qualities of her dream husband, but instead of
meeting him the next day—she met him the same day!
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Currently hosting her own Radio Talk Show on Karmaair.com, Carol can be heard dispensing wise counsel every
Sunday from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm PST. She offers a strong and informed point of view backed up a genuine concern
for people. Committed to giving you the tools all of us need when it comes to relationships, Carol Allen is making a
difference in the lives of everyone she everyone she comes in contact with.
Carol Allen has also written for periodicals such as The Whole Life Times, Woman's World, New Woman Spirit, The
Taos Sun, The Journal for the American Council of Vedic Astrology and produces a weekly article about relationships in
anticipation of her radio show on Sunday.
Well versed in the latest developments in relationship research, Carol has employed her knowledge and natural
instincts with hundreds of clients, both men and woman. Some of the issues she works on are: 1) The neurological,
emotional, sexual, hormonal and verbal differences between men and women, 2) The nine stages of a healthy
relationship, 3) What to do if you're and Alpha Female, 4) Why men marry some women and not others, 5) The four
worst behaviors that precede a break-up, 6) How to divorce proof your marriage.
In pursuit of knowledge she participated in programs of The Sterling Institute of Relationship, where she studied the
inherent differences between men and women and how to make th most of all personal and professional dynamics.
She also looked closely at the work of relationship experts such as John Gottman, John Gray, Patrica Allen, Barbara De
Angeles, John T. Malloy and many others.
Carol's very popular 16-hour seminars take place over successive Saturdays or for two hours a night every Monday for
8-weeks. These are comprehensive and intense workshops with 12 participants at a time with a free flow of
information, plus homework, combined with participation by those attending. Carol also has two very effective audio
CDs: the double CD Dating Do's and Don'ts and the single CD Getting Along.
Sunday from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm PST. She offers a strong and informed point of view backed up a genuine concern
for people. Committed to giving you the tools all of us need when it comes to relationships, Carol Allen is making a
difference in the lives of everyone she everyone she comes in contact with.
Carol Allen has also written for periodicals such as The Whole Life Times, Woman's World, New Woman Spirit, The
Taos Sun, The Journal for the American Council of Vedic Astrology and produces a weekly article about relationships in
anticipation of her radio show on Sunday.
Well versed in the latest developments in relationship research, Carol has employed her knowledge and natural
instincts with hundreds of clients, both men and woman. Some of the issues she works on are: 1) The neurological,
emotional, sexual, hormonal and verbal differences between men and women, 2) The nine stages of a healthy
relationship, 3) What to do if you're and Alpha Female, 4) Why men marry some women and not others, 5) The four
worst behaviors that precede a break-up, 6) How to divorce proof your marriage.
In pursuit of knowledge she participated in programs of The Sterling Institute of Relationship, where she studied the
inherent differences between men and women and how to make th most of all personal and professional dynamics.
She also looked closely at the work of relationship experts such as John Gottman, John Gray, Patrica Allen, Barbara De
Angeles, John T. Malloy and many others.
Carol's very popular 16-hour seminars take place over successive Saturdays or for two hours a night every Monday for
8-weeks. These are comprehensive and intense workshops with 12 participants at a time with a free flow of
information, plus homework, combined with participation by those attending. Carol also has two very effective audio
CDs: the double CD Dating Do's and Don'ts and the single CD Getting Along.
Carol Allen, relationship coach, radio talk show host and writer, has successfully helped thousands of
people as a Vedic astrologer and relationship coach for over 15 years. Through her workshops in
Los Angeles, and consultations over the phone, Carol offers caring and solid advice in the areas
where men and women find the most conflict. These include finance, career, health, real estate,
travel, and conception. Once a popular guest on numerous local and nationally syndicated radio
shows, including the top rated Doug Stephan Good Day, Carol Allen has contributed stories to the
famed Chicken Soup Series, A Second Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul, and two versions of
the Hot Chocolate Series, Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Soul and Mystical Lover.
people as a Vedic astrologer and relationship coach for over 15 years. Through her workshops in
Los Angeles, and consultations over the phone, Carol offers caring and solid advice in the areas
where men and women find the most conflict. These include finance, career, health, real estate,
travel, and conception. Once a popular guest on numerous local and nationally syndicated radio
shows, including the top rated Doug Stephan Good Day, Carol Allen has contributed stories to the
famed Chicken Soup Series, A Second Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul, and two versions of
the Hot Chocolate Series, Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Soul and Mystical Lover.
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1) The astrological secret to experiencing more love with less "work" 5
common myths about Sun Signs... and the truth about "compatibility"
2) 5 proven tips for emotional fulfillment astrologers can't or won't tell
you.
3) How your "astrological seasons" work... and the time TRUE LOVE
will come.
4) What makes you effortlessly ATTRACTIVE, no matter your age or
weight
5) How to recognize astrologically "afflicted" partners who can't meet
your needs.
6) The 7 secrets to communicating with a man that will bring more
affection into
your life (even when you share difficult feelings or ask for more)
7) "Must-know" insights about your chart under Vedic Astrology
8) What your Moon Sign reveals about lasting romance in your
relationship
Learn your secrets written in your stars...
common myths about Sun Signs... and the truth about "compatibility"
2) 5 proven tips for emotional fulfillment astrologers can't or won't tell
you.
3) How your "astrological seasons" work... and the time TRUE LOVE
will come.
4) What makes you effortlessly ATTRACTIVE, no matter your age or
weight
5) How to recognize astrologically "afflicted" partners who can't meet
your needs.
6) The 7 secrets to communicating with a man that will bring more
affection into
your life (even when you share difficult feelings or ask for more)
7) "Must-know" insights about your chart under Vedic Astrology
8) What your Moon Sign reveals about lasting romance in your
relationship
Learn your secrets written in your stars...
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