"As a psychologist, I believed many of the answers to my life struggles would be found in years of therapy, yet no one has been able to enlighten me as Carol has. I owe my marriage and my family to Carol." S.A. Espino, MSW, Psychologist
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In pursuit of knowledge she participated in programs of The Sterling Institute of
Relationship, where she studied the inherent differences between men and
women and how to make th most of all personal and professional dynamics.
She also looked closely at the work of relationship experts such as John
Gottman, John Gray, Patrica Allen, Barbara De Angeles, John T. Malloy and many
others.
Carol's very popular 16-hour seminars take place over successive Saturdays or
for two hours a night every Monday for 8-weeks. These are comprehensive
and intense workshops with 12 participants at a time with a free flow of
information, plus homework, combined with participation by those attending.
Carol also has two very effective audio CDs: the double CD Dating Do's and
Don'ts and the single CD Getting Along
We’ve all heard it a million times—the most important thing to have in any relationship for it to succeed is (drum roll
please…) communication. Well, guess what? Grandma and all the pundits got it right. Findings of the most
empirical, rigorous, long-term marriage study ever done say the same thing—to effectively maneuver the world of
intimate coupling, you have to be able to healthfully communicate.
That’s easy, right? I mean, we’ve all been talking since we were toddlers. And if you can talk, you can
communicate, can’t ya? And if you’re involved with someone over one-year-old, they can talk. So it should be as
simple as that.
But we all know it’s not—we struggle with how to approach tough topics, how to ask for what we need without
making the other person start bleeding, how to be honest but not too honest. Most of us spend a great deal of
time telling white lies, swallowing our feelings, and hoping for the best. Or worse, we start with good intentions
but then can’t manage our emotions and pick the wrong timing, the wrong approach, and end up making the other
person yell or cry or shut down—or leave, and then we wonder—what the heck happened?
If anything of this sounds familiar, I’d love to tell you you’re unique in your challenges. But, sadly, you’re not. Look
around—your friends are having the same problems you are. And when you call them for advice, they say things
like, “He said what?! Get rid of him!” But isn’t that what they said about the last guy? Your favorite characters on
TV are no help, either. You know we’re in trouble as a society when the happiest, most loving couple in the media
is Marge and Homer.
So where can you go? On Enlightening Relationships, we’ll tell you all the things to do that work every time.
Because it’s not what you say, but how you say it and when that matters. That same marriage study has found
that 96% of conversations that start harshly never recover and go smoothly. Ninety-six percent! Which means you
can never start a conversation harshly. We’ll fully cover their results and those of several other scientific research
studies which have determined the ways men’s and women’s brains differ in terms of speech, problem solving, and
instinct, why men are more likely than women to give the silent treatment, the ways men are inspired to give us
what we want, and more. And best of all, once you know how to do what works, you can teach everyone in your
life how to communicate effectively with you. So no more enduring yelling, criticism, or ambushes. Won’t that be
great? You’ll be the envy of all your friends, whose new response to your phone calls will be, “He said what?! You’
re so lucky!”
Carol Allen has also written for periodicals such as The Whole Life Times,
Woman's World, New Woman Spirit, The Taos Sun, The Journal for the
American Council of Vedic Astrology and produces a weekly article about
relationships in anticipation of her radio show on Sunday.
Well versed in the latest developments in relationship research, Carol has
employed her knowledge and natural instincts with hundreds of clients, both
men and woman. Some of the issues she works on are: 1) The neurological,
emotional, sexual, hormonal and verbal differences between men and women,
2) The nine stages of a healthy relationship, 3) What to do if you're and Alpha
Female, 4) Why men marry some women and not others, 5) The four worst
behaviors that precede a break-up, 6) How to divorce proof your marriage.
Thoughts on Relationships From Carol Allen The Art of Communication
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"Carol is a natural. Her instinctual ability to get to the heart of the matter in relationships and to get her clients to come along with her, at their own pace, is matched by warmth, intellect, and humanity. She is a treasure." Stephen P. Herman, M.D. Clinical Assoc. Professor of Psychiatry, Cornell University
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“As a man thinketh, so shall he be?” or “Watch what you wish for, ‘cause you just might get it?” These philosophical
sayings all point to the same idea – that what we say and what we think is what we often experience. What does
any of that have to do with relationships? Think about it—we all know a story of a woman who got sick of dating
bozo after bozo, so she wrote a list of the qualities of her dream man. She read the list over and over and put it
under her pillow, and what happened? She met him the next day and they’ve been married ever since.
Was that coincidence? Dumb luck? Wayne Dyer says, “You’ll see it when you believe it.” I have found that many of
us have exactly what we expected as children—single mothers tell me they always envisioned having children but
never saw a partner in their mind’s eye, happily married women tell me they always knew they’d be married,
divorced people often report to me that they’d always worried they’d end up divorced like their parents, and the rest
is history.
Linda Sivertsen, celebrity interviewer and ghostwriter of celebrity books, author of Lives Charmed—Intimate
Conversations With Extraordinary People—has been hearing from fabulously successful people that they fully
expected to be successful and visualized much of their lives before the magic kicked in. Athletes, movie stars,
newscasters, authors, you name it—none of them have ever reported to Sivertsen that they are surprised to be
where they are. Arnold Palmer, golf champion, told her that he grew up the son of a greens keeper at a country
club, and that he wasn’t allowed to use the facilities like the members.
This gave him the desire to have access to the world he could only witness from the sidelines. He became so
focused that he not only went on to win an astonishing ninety-two professional championships, but he now owns
that same club. Leeza Gibbons, former host of Entertainment Tonight, and Extra told Sivertsen that since the fifth
grade she decided she would be a storyteller using the medium of television.
Actor/comedian Robert Townsend was raised by a single mother. He was obsessed with television, and though he
saw few marriages in real life, he saw may happy couples on his favorite shows and therefore always believed he’d
find love and be married and he did! Seeing a pattern? On Enlightening Relationships Linda Sivertsen will join me to
share the amazing insights she’s learned. And she should know, as her life has been quite charmed as well. You
see, she’s one of those women who sat down and wrote out the list of qualities of her dream husband, but instead
of meeting him the next day—she met him the same day!


Currently hosting her own Radio Talk Show on Karmaair.com, Carol can be
heard dispensing wise counsel every Sunday from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm PST.
She offers a strong and informed point of view backed up a genuine concern for
people. Committed to giving you the tools all of us need when it comes to
relationships, Carol Allen is making a difference in the lives of everyone she
everyone she comes in contact with.
Carol Allen, relationship coach, radio talk show host and writer, has successfully helped thousands of people as a
Vedic astrologer and relationship coach for over 15 years. Through her workshops in Los Angeles, and
consultations over the phone, Carol offers caring and solid advice in the areas where men and women find the
most conflict. These include finance, career, health, real estate, travel, and conception. A popular guest on
numerous local and nationally syndicated radio shows, including the top rated Doug Stephan Good Day, Carol
contributed stories to the famed Chicken Soup Series, A Second Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul, and two
versions of the Hot Chocolate Series, Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Soul and Mystical Lover.
So join us and tune in, call in and be Enlightened...
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And Grandma will be so proud. So tune in, call in, and be Enlightened...
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1) The astrological secret to experiencing more love with less "work" 5 common
myths about Sun Signs... and the truth about "compatibility"
2) 5 proven tips for emotional fulfillment astrologers can't or won't tell you.
3) How your "astrological seasons" work... and the time TRUE LOVE will come.
4) What makes you effortlessly ATTRACTIVE, no matter your age or weight
5) How to recognize astrologically "afflicted" partners who can't meet your needs.
6) The 7 secrets to communicating with a man that will bring more affection into
your life (even when you share difficult feelings or ask for more)
7) "Must-know" insights about your chart under Vedic Astrology
8) What your Moon Sign reveals about lasting romance in your relationship
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Thoughts on the Spiritual Laws of Relationships From Carol Allen
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